I am coming out and saying something in public that my family has known for a very long time: I am a creature of habit. I do not like change. I thrive on routine. Unfortunately, routine, having things stay the same, is not how life works. And for me, that has caused a lot of stress in my life, in ways both big and small. I have spent a lot of my life ignoring the fact that life is messy, or maybe not so much ignoring it as trying to make mine...